Monday, 20 July 2015

I've Been Meaning To Write

In the way of these things, the one sad thing was followed by another and then a third. Whoever said grief is immobilising got it right. Even so, this period of time has been one of forging deeper connections, of renewal and inspiration. I'm enjoying a new found clarity: listening to birds, smelling the air, feeling the sand between my toes, loving my children. Life is sweet. Thank you for your kind comments. I've been visiting your blogs, they served as a pleasant respite and lifted my spirits.

The garden, of course, has been my solace.

A bed I made for the bees

I thought this would be a fun spot for my grandson

The third thing has yet to reach a resolution (fingers crossed a happy one) but I'll drop in when time permits.

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15 comments:

  1. Starting Over, Accepting Changes - Maybe20 July 2015 at 19:08

    I rely on hope, although I am not sure what that word means anymore. I don't look into the future, but try to just consentrate on the here and now and make the most of what each day brings.

    I a so sorry that you are going through so much grief.

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    1. Susan20 July 2015 at 20:17

      I'm trying to do the same and really value each day. It may seem odd but the grief has been a gift.

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  2. Rosemary21 July 2015 at 02:09

    Dear Susan - I am sorry to learn that you have been going through such a difficult period but that you have found solace within your family and garden. May the final resolution be a happy one for you all.

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    1. Susan21 July 2015 at 07:32

      Thank you Rosemary. The third thing affects a dear friend with whom I've had a long distance but enduring relationship for decades. While it makes me anxious my little family is fine.

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  3. Donna@Gardens Eye View21 July 2015 at 04:02

    I found that struggle and grief can be gifts too. I will continue to send good thoughts for you as you find your way each day....the garden is such a beautiful spot to find solace isn't it.

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    1. Susan21 July 2015 at 07:38

      Thank you Donna. The garden was the only place I could function for two weeks. This has been a period of personal growth for which I'm very grateful, my life is the better for it.

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  4. Jane21 July 2015 at 08:44

    The garden, any garden, is always a great escape when times are difficult. Find strength & take care x

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    1. Susan21 July 2015 at 21:59

      Thanks Jane. It is especially nice to get kind words from the old country.

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  5. 2 Tramps21 July 2015 at 19:25

    This is the first day I have looked at blogs since April. I, too, checked out because of personal issues, the death of my father-in-law, my dear mother being ill and several other things. I am just now trying to get back to blogging. I miss doing it and I especially miss reading what is going on with everyone.

    It is good that you can find solace in your gardening. That is my happy place, too, but our weather has been too hot this year to enjoy it much. But there is always next year!

    Welcome back and I wish swift healing for your heart and continued resolution of issues for you.

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    1. Susan21 July 2015 at 22:07

      I am sorry you have been under seige too. Getting back to things I enjoy has been a pleasure. Most sincere wishes for better things ahead for you. I hope you can start posting soon.

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  6. Casa Mariposa23 July 2015 at 11:20

    I hope life improves. :o) The phacelia I grew from the seeds you sent me is very happy, indeed! The bees love it.

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    1. Susan25 July 2015 at 14:43

      I'm over the hump! Glad the phacelia worked for you and the bees.

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  7. Share my Garden26 July 2015 at 01:25

    Trouble comes in threes they say so I hope that life will now take a much happier course for you. A garden space can be a real solace with flowers that seem so fragile but manage to endure whatever is thrown at them. (I'm always amazed when delicate little snowdrops push their faces up through the snow - there is a lesson for us!) Sending you my good wishes for happier times ahead.

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  8. Little Wandering Wren14 August 2015 at 23:37

    Gosh sounds like a horrible time for you and your family, I am glad to read in the comments above you are over the hump and indeed I am hoping a few weeks on that you have a happy resolution, so just stopping by to say hello and send you Aussie hugs!
    Wren x

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  9. Powell River Books17 August 2015 at 13:36

    Taking time to grieve is important, and finding things to get you through is also important. You garden is doing well with all the attention you are giving it. - Margy

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